I'm part of the BDSM community, though I don't actually identify with any of the given labels. I would say I am somewhere between a switch and a submissive, though I hate that term. I don't like the idea of gags, suspension, severe pain, drawing blood, or humiliation. I am not interested in finding a partner or playmate, and am in what I would consider a type of 24/7 relationship. I have a Dom, who I think is amazing. He does not control me or most aspects of my life, however our D/S relationship does affect us on a 24/7 basis. I need his consent to engage in sexual activity as well as to orgasm, even with him, and the emotional connection we share is much different than I have experienced or witnessed with any other relationship. Our punishments are more intrinsic than anything else, which is nice. He does try to reward me frequently, and I try to take care of him and see that he is rewarded for certain things as well. While it's not a type of punishment for us we do enjoy things like extended teasing, and even engaging in orgasm denial. Should you have any suggestions for teasing, different ways to touch each other, or rewards please feel free to send them to me via the "Contact & Requests" page. I am collared, which is something I find very comforting and exciting.
I enjoy reading and writing. I enjoy researching and learning about most sexual topics, as well as most Pagan topics. I have no issues discussing my religion/spirituality or most sexual topics with others. I am open minded, and easy to talk to. If there are enough people emailing me in regards to my blog, I am considering opening a forum here as well.
I am an Eclectic Pagan, and am considered a Solitaire, as I do not practice with a coven. I am also an Usui Reiki Master. I would like to add a few more certifications in this area. If you are looking for Pagan/Metaphysical supplies or to learn more about Usui Reiki, check out my favorite store, Black Kitten Magick and use the code vip10 at checkout to get 10% off your entire order.